WRITERS & LONELINESS

WRITERS & LONELINESS

 For a writer's creative process to work , loneliness is important. Not solitude which is the celebration of being alone but loneliness

 Loneliness is a feeling or realization that gnaws into you a hollow dark pit that seems to drown & asking for help is an impossible dream.It is the feeling of being distant that you feel whilst sitting among your family and friends; the realization that you are no longer part of them . 

       It's born when the very person who are suppose to trust and believe in you , belittles and criticizes the person. It leaves an uneasy feeling that prevents one from trusting anyone ever again , promotes self doubt.

 Human nature ; we can't take it, we get upset when we realize about it . THE BITTERSWEET PAIN OF LONELINESS MAKES YOU CRY & THEN HUGS YOU CLOSELY 

   a deep sadness that makes you yell at the world but suddenly brings you face to face with all the beautiful things that are hidden in plain sight , silently floats in the shadows smiling innocently .

 The sad feeling that stabs you in the heart & tells you

 you are hell strong to stay on that long

Loneliness is a writer's secret friend. It catches and hugs you when no one is around

 

SUCCESS : A TREAT FOR FEW

Behind every succesful person who has achieved something in their fields ; is either a or b or c
A: wealth : plays an important part after luck
B : support from family especially parents ; if they are not supporting they become they biggest hurdle in path of well everything
C : no wealth : act as a motivator to  & try to achieve better life

Success is a treat for few as only few of us are truly happy and excited about their job ;  rest of us have other concerns like getting enough salary to be able to support the family . A responsibility but at the cost of crushed dreams .
our society's definition of success is quite materialistic & well robotic .
In conclusion of my whining is :
I am not a successful person , never have been.. Success only come to those who work hard . Sacrifice time and money to achieve their true calling.

🌊🌊 WHERE OCEANS MEET 🌊🌊

🌊  WHERE OCEANS MEET 🌊

Our world is full of mind boggling miracles, i.e strange scientific phenomenons that can not be replicated and are exclusive in nature.

One of these is the place Where to oceans meet.This stunning visual is of PACIFIC ocean & ATLANTIC Ocean. Its is due to the difference in salinity (salt concentration) of the two water bodies.

《 Atlantic is on average more saline than Pacific》

 South west of Atlantic ocean meets with south east of Pacific ocean by DRAKE PASSAGE at the point of CAPE HORN

 Cape horn notoriously called Graveyard of ships due to its harsh weather conditions ; fierce winds , large waves ,strong current & web of icebergs. 
 It's located in southern end of Chile at the bottom of South America

MOTHER !! DOOR TO HEAVEN

      MOTHER

Mothers are super humans.they are capable of doing multiple tasks and still think selflessly for their family.No one in their short life time are able to repay their mum.

             GOD/ THE ALMIGHTY / THE LORD created ADAM & EVE , taught them and sent them to heaven , gave them the ability to think and make decisions; and sent them to Earth as punishment when they disobeyed. But he still loved for them and had mercy on them. 

  Read the above para again , isn't it the very definition of Bringing up ? the same thing our mothers do for us.

 Being a mother is a huge privilege and responsibility, one that a lot of us tend to take for granted for various reasons .

•   PRIVILEGE: As the lord created a master piece and then entrusted a woman with his beloved creation . Only she can love his creation to infinity and beyond , nurture and nourish them and made them one and best of a kind
  

 RESPONSIBILITY: The infant only recognizes their mothers. They are like empty slates , a hardware with no operating system or software. 

•  Mothers have the responsibility to teach them right morals and ethics and carefully, because one wrong piece information can turn the software into deadly virus.

•  A tiny mistake in their bringing up can cause ripple effects through out their life which will not only cause trouble but also for people around them especially the ones close to them

•  In worst cases can also affect their mental health and stability 

 MAY BE THAT'S  WHY IT IS SAID

 

REBEL OBEDIENT

  I  AM TRAINED TO BE  OBEDIENT

FOLLOWING INVISIBLE TRENDS & CUSTOMS

IN A BEAUTIFUL WORLD STRANGELY OBSTINATE

FORCED INTO SUBMISSION, I AM THE ONE

WITH A REBEL MIND AND SOUL STRONGLY RESILIENT

HARDWORK IS NOT A CONSTANT !

    "EARLY BIRD CATCHES THE WORM " 

"EARLY TO BED EARLY TO RISE , MAKES A MAN HEALTHY,WEALTHY & WISE"

The formula that mostly works with almost everyone . the default strategy of a hard worker. The plan never questioned , the move never doubted..GET UP EARLY, HAVE A ROUTINE , STAY FOCUSED , WORK HARD & SUCCESS WILL BE YOURS .....but to what extent,because they also say .
SUCCESS AND FAILURE GO HAND IN HAND. 
so whats the point of all the hard work..
WELL , my intention is not to make any one feel bad about hard work , just one question 

DOES IT WORK FOR EVERYONE ?? 

•  i believe dedicating yourself to one thing ( staying focused ) can do wonders.... but why stick to one thing & ignore the rest of the beauty, is also a legit perspective

• being persistent is important....but doesn't it get a bit mundane and boring, thinks the one with floating attention.

• get up early .. but i am a night person, so hard work is not for me

• have a strict routine ...  but my routine is strictly random. one day i have all the time and solitude i need,the other it gets crowded as hell or i am just too down to do any thing . the strict routine might help get the work done but at the cost of one's health   

                   my opinion : TRY every move & the one that suits you the best , stick to it. Always trust your gut. do everything that pleases you & the ones that matter to you without causing any kind of harm to any living being .. 

THIS WORLD IS A BEAUTIFULLY STAGED COLLECTIVE DREAM OF ALL HUMANS

LETS SPREAD A LOT OF SMILES BEFORE IT ENDS     🙂🙂

BOOK REVIEW : THE BOOK THIEF

    I recently read this book about a little girl living in nazi- germany with foster parents. It shows how major events affects lives on individual level. it tries to shine a light on human's potential at both ends of spectrum . they can be brutal enough to scare death itself & kind enough that even the angel of death thinks they deserved more while shedding tears for them . 
Also the book is narrated by DEATH . .. umm yes the angel of death, the reaper . & its complaining about the over work it had to do during 1938-1945 ( 2nd world war ) 
how it hated plucking life away from innocents buds about blossom , hunting down the roaring youth that are hell bent to take down anything in its way.
 here's one of my favourite quotes from the book
DEATH from book thief by markus zusak :

 I want to explain that i am constantly underestimating or overestimating the human race - that rarely do i simply estimate it . i wanted to ask her that how the same thing could be so ugly and so glorious & its words so damning and so brilliant ..

 and in the end our narrator just gives up by saying :

reflection on my purpose in this world

I am an optimist,most of the time.But everyone and everything has limits.Recently,I was doing some paper work for ending my internship, it got on my nerves (yep the paperwork got on my nerves). 
Reviewing everything i have done,worked my hardest , pushed myself over the edge sometimes and knowing in front of my bosses it will not be enough makes me see myself critically, which is bad. self doubt is always dangerous, avoid it . 
     so my critical self saw me average at my job.The work that i finally can claim to do after 5 long years, is average.It follows a realization may be this isn't my calling.This is not what i am suppose to do.I am an adult,started my professional journey and still don't know who i am,or whats my purpose in this world;other being a background colour,which is noticed only when its gone; a third wheel who stays in shadows.
     For some reason it didn't sound strange, shadows are my comfort zone.I stay there,I like it there.Great thing about background colours , nothing is complete without them.I like to be there for people when they feel down and at there lowest.I like to push them up. I am not at the top & it hurts me sometimes. but rest of the times i know i can help people when they are in the dark pit , i like my role of a ladder who pull people out of the dark pit back into light. 
i hope it doesn't sound like bragging, ranting or some thing bad. because i like to help people that way when they smile with hope . when their eyes gleam with the will to fight and get to there destination & they achieve that position. That's when i feel at the top of the world, and all of the self doubt just vanishes away because yea i am bad at a lot of things & average at others i do things differently mostly wrongly too . but at least there is one thing i am good at & i get paid in best way possible : a precious human smiled because of me.
   to conclude : your calling shouldn't have to be your passion , your work or your major .It doesn't have to be some thing major , something too obvious that everybody can see it. it is definitely not measured by money; it definitely will be something that makes you content inside,it will give you a sense of accomplishment , you don't look at your watch while doing it . you are willing to give it your time. & it can be as  little as making some  one smile.

COMMON SENSE ; A MYTH

COMMON SENSE: A MISCONCEPTION 

Common sense is neither common nor sense. Common sense is a phrase that generally implies something everyone knows; but it's more of a figure of speech.

Usually , it is used as a phrase to belittle someone who has missed an obvious point or solution .It can be rephrased as when someone takes a different course of action than the one preferred by majority , they are told to change it by discouraging their morals; the phrases used are

 "It's common sense" , "don't be stupid" , "that's not how you do it" e.t.c  basically

We humans are the most diverse species on the planet. DNA combines into million different patterns to give all of us a unique trait making each of us an important element in the universe , serving a bigger purpose. 
      Our brains comprehend and understand things differently right down to individual level ; the very reason why scientists are still baffled & perplexed by the phenomenon of human behavior.
   Coming back to common sense, considering we are different at behavioral level which causes our reactions to be different at individual level. Hence , common sense or an obvious reaction to an event is quite improbable to exist.

 Yesterday's common sense often becomes today's nonsense.
Trends practised as a part of norm, reactions considered common sense are now considered wrong or laughed at .
trends such as not educating the female child , not allowing women to vote, vaccines cause diseases e.t.c

 

CURIOSITY

INTRODUCTION: It’s a quality related to inquisitive thinking such as exploration investigation & learning.

It is related to all aspects of human development , in which derives learning & acquiring of knowledge & skill

• It's a strong desire to know about something 

• A motivation ; like a sub division of passion 

 TYPES OF CURIOSITY: 

• State curiosity: it can be as simple as someone wondering about a noise coming from outside to as deep as the meaning of life

  • Trait curiosity: it is linked to all sorts of behaviour . it's latent in all of us but active in only few of us

    It’s reckless & bold ; can be dangerous but it’s a positive characteristic          

    Our minds crave distraction:

     Psychologists say that we form part of our personalities through the information & attitude we gain from being curious